There is a time in your life when you think you have it under control. You know who you are. You are comfortable with who you are. Then you meet someone. You don't really know them. but all of a sudden, you want to be better for them.You really want to be with them, just to hold them, well her. Can you speak? No, not at all; certainly not like you usually can. You really thought you had left that behind in your earlier years. Well, I guess the chase between a man and a woman never ends.